I refuse. Everything will be fine, anger and resentment, the image of a partner. I think this is not the right introduction to such a reflection article. You should not give up what you really want.

On the contrary, you should strive for what you really want. This can ultimately bring you well-being and, of course, happiness.

This time, an article about what prevents you from being happy. To begin with, remember that the negative that comes from your head, in the form of thoughts and words, returns in the form of reality.

Therefore, change your thoughts to “everything will be fine”. For a person who believes in this, nothing is impossible and happiness will be with you.

I refuse, at superfluous and unnecessary.

Do you care what others think of your decisions? If you make decisions that make you happy, why should you think about what people think of you?

Imagine how much easier life would be if you stopped worrying about whether the people around you like your decisions.

Is it worth trying to live up to other people’s expectations? You can listen to or take advice, but don’t let these people decide for you how to live your life.

Give up excess, anger and resentment.

Anger eats you up from the inside, so learn to reconcile with those who annoy you. However, this does not mean that you can let others take advantage of you.

To avoid scandal, you just need to learn to cope with anger and resentment. Yes, and with the pain that remains inside and demands revenge.

Remember that the one who angers you controls you. Some people enjoy their resentment like a gourmet meal, and this does not lead to anything good. These feelings do not harm the person you are offended or angry at, but only you.

I refuse, Ideal body image.

How often do you follow the advice of the beauty industry, the opinions of loved ones and friends? Your body is the little thing that really belongs to you, and who, if not you, will decide how it should look?

The only thing that matters is how you feel. Comfortable or not, the rest is insignificant.

Give up the superfluous, the image of the ideal partner.

The ideal partner does not exist, do not even hope for it. Each of us has some ideal image or at least a set of exemplary qualities that a person should correspond to. But life usually spits on these lists and laughs at them.

What qualities should a partner have to make you happy? Remember that all people have the same ideal.

1. You must love him with all your heart
2. He must feel easy and comfortable next to him.
3. He must accept you as you are.

If the first two points are great, you have found what you need. It remains to highlight the last point for yourself.

He is not perfect, and you will never be perfect either. If he ever made you laugh, if he admits that he is human and makes mistakes, be with him and give him everything you can.

He is not going to recite poetry, he is not thinking about you every moment, but he will give you a part of himself, even though he knows that you may not accept it.

Don’t hurt him, don’t try to change him, and don’t expect more from him than he can give.

Smile when he makes you happy, scream when he makes you angry, and miss him when he is not with you. Love is difficult only because it exists.

Because perfect people don’t exist, but there is one person who will be perfect for you. Of course, with whom you are good!

The perfect life.

Just as there is no perfect partner, there is no perfect life. Life is what you put into it, so if you are not willing to work hard and make an effort, you are choosing a bad life.

The choices you make directly affect the course of your life. You can create your own world, the most beautiful of all worlds. Of course, if you want to!

You will be rich.

Many people live their whole lives with the idea that they must become millionaires. Despite the fact that this is not a bad goal, in fact, to achieve it, you need to invest a lot of work.

Also, do not make money an end in itself. The main thing is to find a job that will become your passion and fulfill you. As the wise say, then the money will come (of course, if you do not feel disgust for work).

Give up excess, fortune.

Do not wait for “Lady Luck” to knock on your door, although according to probability theory, it can happen at any moment.

Appreciate the life that you have and be grateful for what you have. Success will never come if you wait for it. Approximately that and there is part of the philosophical truth.

Give up excess, excuses.

There is no time for excuses. Forget that there is a thought “no time” or “no desire”.

Excuses are just your attempt to feel like a busy bastard. Remember this, when once again you do not do something that should have been done a long time ago.

Do everything you planned and believe, you will be happy.

Reflections on exes.

You broke up, in any case there was a reason for it. Remembering your ex, think not about the person, but only about the lessons that life gave you, what you received from this person.

Do not cling to a person who will never be with you. This will only ruin your new relationship and make you suffer.

You will be happy if you love him with all your heart. You should feel easy and comfortable next to him.

Give up the unnecessary, stubbornness.

It is difficult to admit that you are wrong somewhere. Accept the understandable, that
other people have more knowledge or ability to do something right. So stop being stubborn and just accept it as a fact.

The less stubborn you are, the more open you are to something new.

Think about how much you can experience and feel if you try to understand and accept someone else’s point of view, which is different from your own.

Procrastination.

The word “procrastination” refers to the tendency to postpone work for later, both hesitation and the desire not to think about something unpleasant for as long as possible.

What do I mean by that? Just stop procrastinating, it’s time to move! Stop putting off tomorrow, live today. If you constantly put off something, think about whether it is even worth doing?

Maybe you don’t need it at all? If you need it, then do it now! Constantly putting it off until tomorrow only brings guilt and stress. Is it worth suffering like this?

Let go of unnecessary, memory baggage.

You should not carry around the baggage of memories, especially about past relationships. If you loved someone very much or thought you loved them, you will unconsciously compare.

Or you will impose a projection on a new person who is not to blame for anything.

When starting a new relationship, get rid of the old ones, and not only in life, but also in your head. This applies not only to falling in love, but to all relationships in general.

Envy.

If you didn’t know, then social networks make people unhappy. They look at their former classmates, fellow students and acquaintances who have achieved something great. It is possible that you can literally get sick from envy.

You may feel like nothing in the general merry-go-round of life. The next time you feel envious, think about this: “Would I like to be the person I envy?”

Certainly not, because you love yourself, because somewhere very deeply you understand it and feel it, like a light, affirming breeze.

You look at the life of someone else you don’t know, you have no idea what this person is thinking.

Maybe at the moment when he dives into the pool of his private house, he hates himself or is wildly afraid of something?

Maybe you, walking through the forest on a sunny day, experience much more pleasure than he does, basking in the snow-white sand in the Maldives?

In general, stop looking at others, if you feel good right now, then everything is right, if not, then do it so that it is good.

Give up the excess, uncertainty.

Happy people tend to have self-esteem. Just don’t confuse it with an inflated ego. Happy people are happy with who they are. They radiate confidence and are not afraid to show their worth.

There is no reason to be insecure! If you have traits that you hate about yourself, there are two ways: accept them or change them. You choose who you want to be, only you, not those around you.

I can be happy!

To be happy, depend on the work you devote to your self-esteem and well-being. No one, no person in this life will fill your emptiness, if there is one.

No one will make you happy if you are unhappy. In order to share your happiness with someone else, you must first find this happiness yourself.

Therefore, do not even hope that your happiness is in someone else’s hands, it is only in you.

Be ready to accept everything that life sends you, and be happy.

Good Day!